3:50PM
My Memere passed away today, after a brief battle with esophageal cancer. She was surrounded by the people who loved her and she went peacefully. No more pain. No more radiation. No more doctor visits.
Nicole (on the right) is the writer in the family, and when there was a request for her to give a reading at the funeral, she agreed. We’re all planning on letting her know if there are certain memories that we want to be shared, and my mom asked me if there was anything specific I would want to be remembered.. But how could I ever pick just one moment. One memory? How is that even possible?
I guess if I absolutely had to choose one memory, it would be the multiple sleepovers that my sister, brother and I had over her and Pepere’s home. After dinner (which usually involved homemade pizza with sliced hotdogs on top,) we were all in our pajamas, and memere would whip up a big batch of popcorn. She would turn on the kitchen radio and as soon as the beat came on (every song had to have a beat in order for her to like it 😉 ), she would grab one of us grandkids and start dancing and twirling. I used to love it when she would twirl me around. I’d laugh and giggle as she tried to twirl herself underneath my skinny little 7-year old arm.
Then in the morning we’d wake up late and eat icecream sundaes for breakfast, complete with sprinkles and whipped cream. She’d serve it to us while we were watching Tom and Jerry cartoons. I think we enjoyed it almost as much as she enjoyed spoiling us.
I’m a little out of sorts right now, I’ve got to say. A little bit in a fog. But I know that my Memere is finally in a better place, and she is now in absolute peace. And I’ll see her again someday.
In memory of my Memere, please give someone you love a hug today and let them know what they mean to you!!!
Losing someone is never easy. I hope you do find peace. ❤
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. My condolences to your family.
Wishing you some rest. Better to have known and shared experiences than none at all.
So sorry about your Memere! My condolences. I love the story you shared, that is a heartwarming childhood memory. All the best to you and yours.
Jenn
I’m so sorry for your loss – my best wishes to you and your family. You’ve got some great memories – never forget them. I’m sure your Memere is incredibly proud of you, too 🙂
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers! I know your Memere is looking down, reading your post, and smiling! 🙂
My condolences Sarah. Your memories of your Memere are beautiful – I hope you cherish them forever.
You and your family are in my prayers! I know it’s always hard to lose someone, but it is such a gift that we can see the people we love again someday in heaven.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😦 But you guys are in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
I am sorry to hear of your loss but happy to see how at peace you are with it. That is how my family felt about my Grandad’s recent passing- No more pain, just freedom to be happy and healthy again. You and your family are in my prayers. 🙂
That was beautiful, Sarah!
oh I’m so sorry to hear this. the relationship I had with my grandma could not compare to any other I’ve ever had, she was an amazing woman who brought out the best in everyone she met. Your memere sounds amazing too! The memories you have will keep her forever in your heart.
xoxo
My condolences. Having just lost my own grandmother (Oma) in February, I know a bit of what you’re going through. Praying for you.
‘Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.’ Romans 15:13